This club will involve an experiment. We're going to experience something together and learn about ourselves.

What if the question “What’s my purpose?” isn’t something you figure out once, but something you test, adjust, and discover over time? And what if the real reason people feel stuck isn’t a lack of direction, but the mindset they bring to the search? In this experiment and discussion, Zevan, whose own journey with this question has been deeply personal, will guide us through a different approach: treating purpose not as a fixed answer, but as something you actively explore. Instead of building a ten-year plan, we’ll look at how small experiments, real-world action, and honest reflection can reveal far more than endless thinking ever could.

We’ll explore four common mindsets people fall into when searching for purpose: the cynical, the escapist, the perfectionist, and the experimental, and how each one shapes what we see, what we avoid, and what we believe is possible. Which one are you operating from without realising it? And what changes when you shift into an experimental mindset—where uncertainty becomes something to engage with, not escape from? This will be a thoughtful, practical, and quietly transformative session for anyone who’s ever felt pressure to “figure it all out,” and is ready to approach the question in a more honest and human way.

这个 club 会有一个小实验，我们会一起体验一件事情，然后顺便更了解自己一点。如果“我的人生方向是什么”这个问题，并不是一次性想明白的，而是需要不断尝试、调整、慢慢发现的呢？那会不会很多人卡住的原因，其实不是没有方向，而是他们在用什么样的思维方式去找方向？

在这场带有实验性质的讨论中，Zevan 会带大家换一种方式来看这个问题——他自己也在这个问题上走过一段挺个人的探索过程。我们不会把“人生方向”当成一个固定答案，而是把它当成一个需要不断去尝试的东西。与其做一个十年规划，我们会去看：通过一些小的尝试、真实的行动，以及诚实的自我反馈，可能比一直在脑子里想，更容易找到答案。

我们会一起看看人们在寻找人生方向时，常见的四种思维模式：犬儒型、逃避型、完美主义型，以及实验型。每一种思维，都会影响你看到什么、回避什么，以及你觉得什么是“可能的”。那你现在，其实是在用哪一种思维方式？你自己可能都没意识到。如果切换到“实验型思维”，会发生什么？当不确定性不再是需要逃避的东西，而是可以主动去接触的，会有什么变化？

这会是一场有思考、有实践、但节奏不压迫的讨论，适合那些曾经被“必须想明白一切”这种压力困住过的人，也适合想换一种更真实一点方式去面对这个问题的人。