Why do men and women face such different expectations when it comes to love, sex, money, and behaviour? Why is a man celebrated as a “player” while a woman in the same situation is labeled negatively? And why are men often discouraged from showing vulnerability, while women are expected to be emotionally open? These questions cut to the heart of one of the most persistent double standards in dating and relationships, and they shape the way we see ourselves, our partners, and society.

Join Alex, a wellness coach, for a lively and thoughtful discussion on these double standards. We’ll explore issues like who’s expected to pay, how income differences affect relationships, and why cultural and social norms create such different sets of rules for men and women. This is a chance to look beyond stereotypes, challenge outdated thinking, and share perspectives on what equality and fairness could really look like in modern dating.

为什么男人和女人在面对爱情、性、金钱和行为的时候会有完全不一样的期待？为什么男人在同样的情境下会被夸成“player”，而女人却会被贴上负面标签？为什么男人被劝不要表现脆弱，而女人却被期待要情感外露？这些问题直击约会和亲密关系中最顽固的“双标”，而它们也在悄悄影响我们看待自己、伴侣以及整个社会的方式。

加入 Alex 的讨论吧，她是一位健康教练，这次会带来一场既热烈又深思的对话。我们会聊到诸如“到底谁该买单”“收入差距对关系的影响”，以及为什么文化和社会规范会造出两套完全不同的标准。这是一个机会，能让我们跳出刻板印象，质疑过时的观念，分享彼此的观点，看看在现代约会里，平等和公平到底应该是什么样子。