Why do so many people today see themselves as victims, even when the reality may be more complicated? At what point does healthy recognition of harm turn into self-pity, self-sabotage, and the belief that the world is against us? How can you identify is you or someone around you is falsely seeing themself as a victim and what can you do about it? This mindset can be highly destructive, not only because it prevents growth, but also because it can slide into egocentrism or even narcissism. Understanding why this is on the rise, and how to recognize it in ourselves and others, is a critical psychological challenge of our time. Let's join David, a chief psychological counsellor, for a thought-provoking discussion on the concept and practice of victimisation. We’ll explore the difference between truly being a victim and adopting a victim mentality, the psychological roots behind these patterns, and the ways they impact behavior, relationships, and personal development. We’ll also look at practical strategies for dealing with people who fall into this mindset. This is a chance to sharpen your self-awareness, better understand human psychology today, and learn how to approach one of the most pressing personal and social issues of our time. 为什么现在这么多人喜欢把自己当成“受害者”？什么情况下，合理的受伤感知会变成自怜、自我设限，甚至觉得全世界都在针对自己？你要怎么判断，自己或身边人是不是陷入了错误的受害者心态？又该如何应对？ 这种思维模式的破坏性很大，不仅阻碍成长，还容易演变成自我中心甚至自恋。理解为什么这种现象在当下越来越普遍，以及怎么识别它、处理它，已经成了我们这个时代重要的心理课题。 跟着David，一起深度探讨受害者心态的心理根源和现实表现。我们会拆解真正的“受害者”和“受害者心态”的差别，聊它对行为、人际关系和个人发展的影响，还会分享一些实用的应对策略。这是一次提升自我认知、理解当代心理趋势的机会，也是去学习如何应对当下最棘手的社会与个人问题之一。